Meet Asha Lapps
Helping women heal, reconnect with their feminine energy, and create the healthy, fulfilling relationships they deserve.
There comes a moment when you realize you're ready for something different.
Maybe you're tired of attracting the same relationships.
Maybe you've lost yourself while trying to make love work. Or maybe you're ready to finally choose yourself.
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I believe healthy relationships don't begin by finding the right person, they begin by becoming the healthiest, most confident version of yourself.
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My passion is helping women heal emotionally, embrace their feminine energy, rebuild their confidence, and attract relationships that align with who they truly are.
My Journey
Asha Lapps is a dedicated advocate for her community and the founder of Black Queens of Durham Region, an online platform she created in 2017 to empower and support Black women in Durham and the surrounding areas. With a growing membership of over 13,000, the community serves as a vital hub for connection, resources, and encouragement. Throughout the year, the group also hosts signature events that allow members to connect more deeply, further solidifying the meaningful relationships formed within the community.
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In addition to her community work, Asha also coaches women who are struggling with dating and relationships, helping them date with confidence and intention in order to attract meaningful, lasting love. She is deeply committed to inspiring women and is known as a natural connector, always striving to bring people together for the collective growth and well-being of those she serves.
My Coaching Philosophy
I don't believe in quick fixes or outdated dating advice.
Instead, I guide women through meaningful transformation by helping them:
Heal emotional wounds
Strengthen
self-worth
Set healthy boundaries
Rediscover their feminine confidence
Create authentic connections
Deepen self love
How I Can Help
Immersive experiences focused on healing, connection, and personal growth in a supportive environment.
Retreats
(Coming Soon)
Personalized coaching designed to help you navigate relationships with clarity and confidence.
One-on-One Coaching
Self-paced learning with practical tools, reflection exercises, and guidance for lasting transformation.
LoveLife
Signature Course
"Healthy relationships don't happen by chance.
They begin with self-awareness, intentional choices,
and the courage to love authentically."
Asha Lapps
